ahh ok...
if you right click on the youtube video you can copy the "embedding code"
like this for the video above:
<object style="height: 390px; width: 640px"><param name="movie" value="
http://www.youtube.com/v/kJEHp15Hoo0?version=3"><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"><embed src="
http://www.youtube.com/v/kJEHp15Hoo0?version=3" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" allowScriptAccess="always" width="640" height="360"></object>
i don't know what this version3 stuff means, but that's the part you need
