Just some thoughts...
If your goal is a dual-Xeon machine, a possible compromise may be to begin by populating only one of the sockets with an E5-1660, with the intention being to upgrade to dual chips next year, when the E5 Xeons move from Sandy Bridge to Ivy Bridge. The E5-1660 is a 3.3/3.9GHz single-socket-only LGA 2011 hexacore Xeon, which should theoretically have performance similar to a stock-clocked i7 3930K. This is assuming that dual-Xeons is the goal, with the choice of E5-2630 being to keep costs reasonable, given the premium currently attached to any of the 8-core and/or higher-frequency E5-2600 series chips. If dual-Xeon is not a core requirement, then you may do best by building a single-chip i7 3930K machine, as numerobis suggests. I tend to prefer that over i7 3770K, since as previously mentioned, where LGA 1155 will be superseded by a new socket with Haswell, LGA 2011 is supposed to see Ivy Bridge chips next year, with perhaps 8 cores (it is reported that Ivy Bridge Xeons may have up to 12).
As for drives, I have been running SSDs for a few years now, and the advisability of using them at least for the system drive cannot be understated, in my opinion. Due to the price points vs. capacity of SSDs, what I currently do is to buy two at half the capacity I am after and run them together in RAID 0, for even quicker performance. Using two RAID 0 Intel 320 drives, Rhino 5 x64 startup on my machine (currently a couple-years-old i7 970 @ the stock 3.2GHz) is about 4 seconds. Using Intel 520s, I expect to reduce that figure to something like 2.5s. Another example of what the SSDs do: when booting my machine, more time is spent in BIOS than in Windows startup; in total, it's less than 10s from pushing the power button, to the Windows login. Drive speed is not an inconsequential factor for Maxwell either, since MXI files are so large, and are written at each SL.
For graphics, I use a Quadro 2000, which is a little small at 1GB, but which has been entirely usable, and has very nice AA. Some people have recently been having AA problems in Rhino with the ATI cards, while others have reported poor performance with Quadros. Still, for what it's worth, I am in the process of putting together a new machine, and will probably use a Quadro 4000 (I like the 2000, and can't justify the price of the 5000 or K5000). If you are only using Rhino, you can get away with using a GeForce instead; you can't do that with some other applications, like SolidWorks, which disable various functionality, unless you are running an "approved" card like a Quadro or FirePro.
Here is one person who reports using a GTX 680 with Rhino,
and another using a GTX 660 Ti (he is using it because the AA on his ATI 7950 was bad).